I’m Nichole HAUGEN

Catholic Grief Coach

I Help Catholics Who Have Experienced A Sudden Loss, Find Healing

Grieving This Lent?

You don’t have to walk through it alone.

Supporting You As You Grieve

You weren’t meant to carry grief alone

Grief is unpredictable. Some days feel gentle. Others feel like you can’t breathe. And while the world keeps rushing on… you’re left wondering:

How do I keep going when my heart is still broken?

Where is God in this pain?

Is it even possible to feel peace again?

If this is where you are—sister, you are not alone. And you don’t have to stay stuck here.

Whether you’re facing quiet mornings filled with tears, unexpected waves of sadness, or tough questions in prayer, you deserve a space to process your grief with faith and support.

WHAT THIS IS

 

This Lenten Grief Group is for you if:

  • You’ve lost someone you love and feel the weight of it more during Lent

  • You want faith-centered support without clichés or pressure to “be okay”

  • You’re craving gentle structure, guidance, and real conversation

  • You want a place where grief and faith are both welcome

This is not therapy — and it’s not a Bible study.
It’s a sacred space for accompaniment, reflection, and support.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I’m not grieving the ‘right’ way?

There is no timeline for grief. Whether it’s been 3 weeks or 3 years, your pain is real—and you’re welcome here.

What if I get emotional or cry during coaching?

You’re allowed to show up exactly as you are. This is a safe and sacred space.

Do I have to talk about my faith?

No. Your faith is honored here, but you don’t have to talk about it. Everything we do is rooted in the Catholic understanding of suffering, redemption, and eternal life

I don’t know what grief coaching actually is.

Think of grief coaching as a gentle guide—someone who listens, affirms your experience, and helps you navigate the fog of grief with clarity, tools, and hope.

I already have a spiritual director / therapist.

Grief coaching is not therapy or spiritual direction. It’s a unique kind of support—practical, faith-aligned, and focused on helping you integrate your grief into everyday life. It can complement your other support beautifully.

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About Me

My name is Nichole Haugen. I am a grief coach, cradle Catholic and grew up on a ranch in North Dakota. I have been a Registered Nurse for over 10 years. I have worked in long term care, hospice and home health, with hospice being my passion.

In 2019 both of my parents died. My dad died in the summer after a ten year battle with prostrate cancer. Four months later my mom died; tragically and suddenly, in an accident. A month later I found out about a large debt my husband had been hiding from me. Two months after that-COVID. Needless to say I was spinning in overwhelm, anger, sadness, grief, and everything in between.

Something needed to change. All the tools that I have learned about, I now help others with. I help Catholic women who are caregivers or grieving the loss of a loved one. I help you with the flood of emotions that come and go with grief. Grief is not linear and it feels like every time you feel sad, you start to spiral. Grief can feel so lonely, but you don’t have to go it alone.

Testimonials

“Personal coaching is amazing! She (Nichole) helps me so much. She can see things I can’t see.”

L.S.

“I have been in grief groups before and wasn’t sure if this one would be different. It really was. The faith aspect was a game changer. I didn’t realize how stuck I was. I feel like I am back to ‘normal’ and doing things I enjoy again.” 

Jeanne

“Nichole’s coaching has helped me organize and focus my thoughts.”

C.M.

“One on One Coaching helped me with accountability.”

M.M.

I’ve had 3 coaching sessions/2 weeks apart with Nicole & I have changed 1 habit and I’m working an another problem that has made me feel really bad. It takes me 2-3 weeks to intentionally work on plans that Nicole & I think will work. The process has really helped me change lifestyles; however, before it’s a habit I expect about 9-12 weeks to eliminate 1 behavior and replace it with another better one.

D.C.

Resources

Grief Doesn’t Follow a Schedule

Your Healing Support Shouldn’t Have To Either.

Get in touch

I am here to answer your questions and listen to your suggestions.

Nichole Haugen catholicgriefcoach@outlook.com